Staying with God at the Cross
Good Friday
for April 3, 2026
Before Worship Begins
Leadership Notes
- The room is dimly lit
- A simple cross is visible at the front.
- 7 candles are lit.
- Instrumental music when appropriate, or no music–silence.
- No announcements
Orientation for the Night
Tonight’s service is quiet and simple.
We will hear the story of Jesus’ suffering and death.
After each reading, there will be silence.
The light will gradually fade.
You may notice restlessness, or distraction, or even resistance.
That is part of the night.
There is nothing you need to achieve.
Only this:
remain…
and stay with God.
(Silence is kept.)
Opening Invitation
We do not rush tonight.
We do not explain.
We do not resolve what cannot yet be resolved.
We come to stay.
To remain with Christ
in the sorrow,
in the silence,
in the darkness.
Stay with our Lord.
(Silence is kept.)
Opening Prayer
Holy God,
on this night of suffering and love,
draw us near to the cross of Christ.
Quiet what is restless in us.
Still what is anxious in us.
Give us the courage to remain—
to stay with you
when we would rather turn away.
Hold us in your presence
as we remember.
Amen.
(Silence is kept.)
The Garden
Matthew 26:36–46 (TSW)
Stay here and keep watch with me.
Matthew 26:36–46
Jesus Prays in Gethsemane
The Plot to Arrest Jesus
Jesus Anointed at Bethany
Judas Agrees to Betray Jesus
Preparing the Passover
Jesus Foretells Betrayal
The Lord’s Supper
Jesus Foretells Peter’s Denial
Jesus Prays in Gethsemane
The Betrayal and Arrest of Jesus
Jesus Before the Council
Peter Denies Jesus
Notes
Notes
Vocabulary
Vocabulary
Followed by two minutes of silence.
Leader: Stay.
The first candle is extinguished.
Betrayal and Arrest
Matthew 26:47–56 (TSW)
Matthew 26:47–56
The Betrayal and Arrest of Jesus
The Plot to Arrest Jesus
Jesus Anointed at Bethany
Judas Agrees to Betray Jesus
Preparing the Passover
Jesus Foretells Betrayal
The Lord’s Supper
Jesus Foretells Peter’s Denial
Jesus Prays in Gethsemane
The Betrayal and Arrest of Jesus
Jesus Before the Council
Peter Denies Jesus
Notes
Notes
Vocabulary
Vocabulary
Followed by two minutes of silence.
Leader: Stay.
The second candle is extinguished.
Denial
Matthew 26:69–75 (TSW)
Matthew 26:69–75
The Plot to Arrest Jesus
Jesus Anointed at Bethany
Judas Agrees to Betray Jesus
Preparing the Passover
Jesus Foretells Betrayal
The Lord’s Supper
Jesus Foretells Peter’s Denial
Jesus Prays in Gethsemane
The Betrayal and Arrest of Jesus
Jesus Before the Council
Peter Denies Jesus
Notes
Vocabulary
Followed by two minutes of silence.
Leader: Stay.
The third candle is extinguished.
Before Pilate
Matthew 27:11–26 (TSW)
Matthew 27:11–26
Jesus Before Pilate
Barabbas Released; Jesus Condemned
Jesus Delivered to Pilate
Judas’s Death
Jesus Before Pilate
Barabbas Released; Jesus Condemned
The Soldiers Mock Jesus
The Crucifixion
The Death of Jesus
Signs and Confession
The Burial of Jesus
The Guard at the Tomb
Notes
Notes
Vocabulary
Vocabulary
Followed by two minutes of silence.
Leader: Stay.
The fourth candle is extinguished.
The Crucifixion
Matthew 27:32-44 (TSW)
Matthew 27:32–44
The Crucifixion
Jesus Delivered to Pilate
Judas’s Death
Jesus Before Pilate
Barabbas Released; Jesus Condemned
The Soldiers Mock Jesus
The Crucifixion
The Death of Jesus
Signs and Confession
The Burial of Jesus
The Guard at the Tomb
Notes
Notes
Vocabulary
Vocabulary
Followed by two minutes of silence.
Leader: Stay.
The fifth candle is extinguished.
The Death of Jesus
Matthew 27:45-50 (TSW)
Matthew 27:45–50
The Death of Jesus
Jesus Delivered to Pilate
Judas’s Death
Jesus Before Pilate
Barabbas Released; Jesus Condemned
The Soldiers Mock Jesus
The Crucifixion
The Death of Jesus
Signs and Confession
The Burial of Jesus
The Guard at the Tomb
Notes
Notes
Vocabulary
Vocabulary
Followed by two minutes of silence.
Leader: Stay.
The sixth candle is extinguished.
The Burial
Matthew 27:57-61 (TSW)
Matthew 27:57–61
The Burial of Jesus
Jesus Delivered to Pilate
Judas’s Death
Jesus Before Pilate
Barabbas Released; Jesus Condemned
The Soldiers Mock Jesus
The Crucifixion
The Death of Jesus
Signs and Confession
The Burial of Jesus
The Guard at the Tomb
Notes
Notes
Vocabulary
Vocabulary
Followed by two minutes of silence.
Leader: Stay.
The seventh candle is extinguished.
Closing and Departure
(Silence is kept.)
Leader: Stay with God, as Christ stayed with us.
People: We stay with Christ today and always.
(The congregation may depart quietly as they stay with God upon going.)
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Written by Rev. Matthew J. Skolnik unless otherwise noted. All rights reserved.
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Resource Details
Date: April 2, 2026 ; Maundy Thursday
Scripture: John 13
Theme: Love That Stays
Lectionary: RCL Year A
Scripture on this page is from The Shared Word Translation (SWT), an ongoing translation project within ChurchCommons.org.