Worship · Order of Worship
Staying When the Way Is Not Yet Clear
Lent 2026 · Staying with God
for March 1, 2026
Before Worship Begins
Naming Uncertainty
Before worship begins, take a moment to name to God one uncertainty you are carrying. There is no need to fix it or make sense of it. This time is an invitation to stay with God, even when the way forward is unclear.
Opening Prayer
A Prayer of Trust and Staying
Faithful God,
we come with open hands
and paths we cannot yet see.
Slow our steps.
Quiet our striving.
Teach us to trust your presence
when the way forward is unclear.
Where we want certainty,
grant us courage.
Where we hesitate,
stay near.
Where the future feels unfinished,
hold us.
Open our hearts to your promise.
Open our lives to your leading,
step by step.
We do not come with answers,
but with trust—
to stay,
to follow,
to worship.
Be present with us now, in the grace given to us in Christ,
and shape us through this time together
as we learn to remain with you.
And all God’s people said,
Amen.
Grace Spoken
Leader
Loved ones,
God is an ever-present help in trouble
and our deliverer in the darkest moments of life.
When we do not know where to go,
when the way before us is unclear,
and when sin mars our hearts, our lives, and our community,
we are invited to rest in God’s sure mercy.
Even as we name our brokenness
and the brokenness of the world,
God does not abandon us.
With this in mind, let us read Psalm 121 together:
A Song of Trust for the Journey
1I lift up my eyes to the hills—
from where will my help come?2My help comes from the LORD,
who made heaven and earth.3The LORD will not let your foot be moved;
the one who keeps you will not slumber.4Indeed, the one who keeps Israel
will neither slumber nor sleep.5The LORD is your keeper;
the LORD is your shade at your right hand.6The sun shall not strike you by day,
nor the moon by night.7The LORD will keep you from all harm;
the LORD will keep your life.8The LORD will keep your going out and your coming in
from this time on and forevermore.
Notes
The psalm opens with a question rather than a confession. Help is not assumed but sought, creating space for trust to be named rather than presumed.
The answer to the question comes immediately and decisively. Help is located not in the hills themselves but in the LORD, identified as creator of heaven and earth.
The imagery of guarding contrasts human vulnerability with divine attentiveness. The LORD’s refusal to slumber or sleep emphasizes constancy rather than urgency.
The LORD is named explicitly as “keeper,” shifting from description to direct assurance. The second-person address personalizes the psalm without narrowing its communal use.
Day and night function as a totality. Protection is framed comprehensively rather than situationally.
“Keeping” is repeated and intensified. The LORD guards not only from harm but also preserves life itself, without specifying the means.
“Going out and coming in” names the whole rhythm of life. Time is expanded from the present moment to an open-ended future, grounding trust beyond immediate circumstances.
Vocabulary
עֵזֶר (ʿēzer)
help; assistance that comes from outside oneself; not self-generated.
עָשָׂה (ʿāśāh)
to make; to do; identifies the LORD as creator, grounding help in creative power.
מוֹט (môṭ)
to slip; to be shaken; evokes instability and vulnerability.
שָׁמַר (šāmar)
to keep; to guard; to watch over; the central verb of the psalm, repeated to shape its assurance.
יָשֵׁן (yāšēn)
to sleep; negated to emphasize uninterrupted divine attentiveness.
צֵל (ṣēl)
shade; shelter; protection from exposure rather than removal from the journey.
נָכָה (nāḵāh)
to strike; to afflict; used of sun and moon as sources of harm.
רָע (rāʿ)
harm; evil; danger; left broad and undefined.
נֶפֶשׁ (nepeš)
life; self; the whole living person under divine care.
בּוֹא / יָצָא (bôʾ / yāṣāʾ)
to come in / to go out; a paired expression naming the full movement of life.
שָׁמַר (šāmar)
“To keep.” To guard; to watch over; the central verb of the psalm, repeated to shape its assurance.
In Jesus Christ, we are forgiven.
Thanks be to God.
Response to God’s Grace
Let us join in prayer together as we offer ourselves to God. Let us pray:
Faithful God,
even as we receive your mercy,
we confess how often we resist your leading.
When the way is unclear,
we rush ahead or turn back.
When trust is required,
we cling to control.
We confess the ways we have marred
our relationships, our communities,
and the world you love.
We confess the harm we have done
and the good we have left undone.
Forgive us where we have wandered.
Restore us where we are weary.
Teach us to stay with you
when the path is uncertain
and your promise is still unfolding.
We offer these prayers in honesty and hope,
trusting not in ourselves,
but in your steadfast love,
revealed to us in Jesus Christ.
Amen.
Passing of the Peace
An Embodied Sign of God’s Grace in Christ Jesus
Because God has chosen to stay with us, let us stay with one another as we are rooted in Christ.
Because we have peace with God through Christ, let us share this peace together.
The peace of Christ be with you.
And also with you.
(Share Christ’s peace in ways fitting to your community.)
Scripture
Across scripture, God Chooses to Stay.
Today’s readings center on a simple, difficult choice: to stay.
As we listen, we are invited to make the same choice—
not to hurry past discomfort or uncertainty,
but to stay with God,
trusting that grace is already at work.
Reading may be shared by multiple voices.
Hebrew Scripture
The Call and Blessing of Abram
1Now the LORD said to Abram, “Go from your land, your kindred, and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. 2And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you, and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing. 3I will bless those who bless you, and the one who treats you lightly I will treat lightly; and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”
4So Abram went, as the LORD had spoken to him; and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he departed from Haran.
Notes
The call is issued before any evaluation of Abram. Command precedes promise, and promise precedes explanation. The movement of the promises expands outward—from land, to nation, to name, to blessing, to all the families of the earth—without specifying the means by which the blessing will occur.
The verb form allows more than one reading (“shall be blessed” / “shall find blessing”). The text does not clarify whether Abram is the agent or the means of blessing; the ambiguity is preserved.
Abram’s obedience is narrated without comment. The text records his action but offers no insight into motive, doubt, or deliberation.
Vocabulary
אֶרֶץ (ʾereṣ)
land; territory or ground; both promised gift and contested space.
בָּרַךְ (bāraḵ)
to bless; to confer life, favor, or fruitfulness; frames the promise and its outward reach.
גּוֹי (gôy)
nation; a people constituted over time, not immediately visible.
שֵׁם (šēm)
name; reputation or standing, not merely a label.
מִשְׁפָּחָה (mišpāḥāh)
family; clan; emphasizes breadth and relational scope rather than political units.
בָּרַךְ (bāraḵ)
“To bless.” To confer life, favor, or fruitfulness; frames the promise and its outward reach.
Epistle Reading
1What then shall we say that Abraham, our ancestor according to the flesh, has found? 2For if Abraham was set right by works, he has something to boast about—but not before God. 3For what does the scripture say? 4Now to the one who works, wages are not counted according to grace but according to what is owed. 5But to the one who does not work but trusts in the one who sets right the ungodly, that trust is counted as righteousness. 13For the promise to Abraham or to his offspring, that he would be heir of the world, did not come through the law but through the righteousness of trust. 14For if those who are of the law are heirs, trust has been emptied and the promise made void. 15For the law produces wrath; but where there is no law, neither is there transgression. 16For this reason, the promise is from trust, so that it may be according to grace and be guaranteed to all the offspring—not only to those who are of the law but also to those who share the trust of Abraham, who is the father of us all,17as it is written,Abraham Set Right by Trust
“Abraham trusted God,
and it was counted to him as righteousness.”
The Promise Depends on Trust
“I have made you the father of many nations”—
in the presence of the God in whom he trusted, who gives life to the dead and calls the things that do not exist as though they exist.
Gospel Reading
Jesus and Nicodemus
1Now there was a Pharisee named Nicodemus, a leader of the Judeans. 2He came to Jesus by night and said to him, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God; for no one can do these signs that you do apart from God being with him.” 3Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God without being born from above.”
4Nicodemus said to him, “How can anyone be born after having grown old? Can one enter a second time into the mother’s womb and be born?”
5Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God without being born of water and Spirit. 6What is born of the flesh is flesh, and what is born of the Spirit is spirit. 7Do not be astonished that I said to you, ‘You must be born from above.’ 8The wind blows where it chooses, and you hear the sound of it, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
9Nicodemus said to him, “How can these things be?”
10Jesus answered him, “Are you a teacher of Israel, and yet you do not understand these things? 11Truly, truly, I tell you, we speak of what we know and testify to what we have seen; yet you do not receive our testimony. 12If I have told you about earthly things and you do not believe, how will you believe if I tell you about heavenly things? 13No one has ascended into heaven except the one who descended from heaven, the Son of Man. 14And just as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, 15so that everyone who trusts in him may have eternal life. 16For God so loved the world that God gave the only Son, so that everyone who trusts in him may not perish but may have eternal life. 17Indeed, God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
Notes
Nicodemus comes “by night,” a narrative detail that signals both caution and incomplete understanding without explicit judgment.
“Born from above” deliberately carries double meaning (from above / again). Jesus does not resolve the ambiguity, and Nicodemus hears it concretely.
“Water and Spirit” is presented without explanation or ritual definition. The text does not specify mechanism or sequence.
Flesh and Spirit are contrasted as sources of life. The wind/Spirit metaphor emphasizes freedom and invisibility rather than control or predictability.
The shift to first-person plural (“we speak…”) broadens testimony beyond Jesus alone, without identifying its scope.
The Son of Man is defined by descent rather than ascent. Authority is grounded in origin, not achievement.
The serpent image links lifting up with healing and trust, not explanation of atonement. The necessity (“must”) is stated, not justified.
God’s love is directed toward the world, not restricted to the faithful. Trust, not knowledge or achievement, is named as the response.
Salvation is framed as God’s purpose; condemnation is not God’s stated aim.
Vocabulary
ἄνωθεν (anōthen)
from above; again; intentionally ambiguous in direction and time.
πνεῦμα (pneuma)
Spirit; wind; breath; carries layered meaning throughout the passage.
φωνή (phōnē)
sound; voice; emphasizes effect without visible source.
μαρτυρέω (martyreō)
“To testify; to bear witness; relational rather than argumentative.”
πιστεύω (pisteuō)
“To trust; to rely upon; more relational than intellectual assent.”
κόσμος (kosmos)
world; the ordered human realm, not morally neutral yet still loved.
Shared Reflection
Take time to reflect together. Let the conversation unfold. As a Christian community, you may want to start this discussion during worship, and finish it over a meal, bible study, or community time later in the week. Alternatively, these questions can easily be transformed into a sermon.
You are free to listen quietly, to speak honestly, or to pass.
Leaders may wish to choose two or three questions rather than using them all.
Staying When the Way is Not Yet Clear
These questions are not about what we believe in theory, but about what we quietly expect in practice.
What are you uncertain about right now? In your life? In the life of your church?
When is uncertainty a good thing? When is it too much to bear?
When was one time in your life you stayed with uncertainty—and discovered something you could not have learned otherwise?
Coming at Night
These questions invite us to notice where we are, and where God may be inviting us to stay a little longer.
What signs of uncertainty do you see in Nicodemus’s actions—not just in what he says, but in when and how he comes to Jesus?
What does Nicodemus risk by coming to Jesus, and what does he protect by coming at night?
Where do you recognize that same tension in your own life—wanting to draw near to God while managing how visible that uncertainty is to others?
When Jesus Does Not Explain
How does Nicodemus respond to Jesus’ words—and what does that response tell us about what Jesus’ words actually do to him?
After Jesus speaks about being born from above, what remains unsettled in the conversation—and what does Jesus choose to do next?
If Jesus continues the conversation without removing Nicodemus’s uncertainty, what does that suggest about the kind of God we meet when we do not yet understand?
Living the Gospel Together
Practicing What We Have Seen
Jesus does not wait for Nicodemus to understand before staying with him.
Jesus stays. Jesus spends time with Nicodemus.
In the same way, we are not asked to resolve every question before we follow.
We are invited to remain open—even when Jesus’ words unsettle us and disrupt what we thought we understood.
The practices below are simple invitations to remain present with God when the way is unclear—to resist the urge to rush toward certainty,
and to stay with the questions that Jesus’ words and actions place before us.
As you are able, choose one practice this week
and let it shape how you listen, wait, and trust.
Invitation 1 — Stay in the Question
This week, choose one unresolved question in your life and resist the urge to solve it.
Each day, name the question before God.
Do not explain it.
Do not rush it.
Simply pray:
“God, I am still here.
Help me rest in you.
Open my eyes to how uncertainty
can draw me closer to you
and to your reign of peace. Amen.”
Invitation 2 — Finish What You Usually Abandon
Choose one small thing you often leave unfinished—a prayer, a scripture reading, a difficult conversation.
This week, practice staying with it to the end, without rushing toward relief or resolution.
Ask yourself: What changes when I remain present, rather than escaping discomfort?
Invitation 3 — Resist the Shortcut Once
Pay attention this week to one place where you are tempted to take the quickest way out.
Choose presence instead of relief.
Trust instead of control.
Ask yourself: What might sustain me here, if I do not demand immediate results?
You may wish to hold a brief silence, asking God for courage and clarity to practice one of these invitations—
not perfectly, but faithfully.
Affirmation of Faith
The Apostles’ Creed
Rooted in the early church (2nd–4th century)
I believe in God, the Father almighty,
maker of heaven and earth.
I believe in Jesus Christ, God’s only Son, our Lord,
who was conceived by the Holy Spirit,
born of the virgin Mary,
suffered under Pontius Pilate,
was crucified, died, and was buried;
he descended to the dead.
On the third day he rose again;
he ascended into heaven,
he is seated at the right hand of the Father,
and he will come to judge the living and the dead.
I believe in the Holy Spirit,
the holy catholic church,
the communion of saints,
the forgiveness of sins,
the resurrection of the body,
and the life everlasting.
Amen.
Prayers of the People
Staying with God, Staying with the World
Faithful God,
you are present before we speak
and remain with us when words fall short.
You know the questions we carry,
the hopes we dare to name,
and the fears we keep hidden.
So we come to you now,
not to solve the world,
but to stay with you in it.
For the Church
We pray for your church in every place—
for congregations navigating change,
for leaders discerning next steps without clear answers,
for communities learning how to remain faithful
when familiar paths no longer guide them.
Where the church is tempted to rush toward certainty,
teach us to wait.
Where we are weary or divided,
teach us to stay with one another in love.
(silent prayer)
Holy God,
hear our prayer.
For the World
We pray for the world you love—
for nations living with conflict and fear,
for communities marked by violence, displacement, and loss,
for leaders entrusted with power
when no simple solutions exist.
Where the temptation is to dominate or withdraw,
give wisdom.
Where despair threatens to take hold,
give courage to remain present and attentive.
(silent prayer)
Holy God,
hear our prayer.
For Those Who Are Suffering
We pray for all who are living with uncertainty—
those awaiting diagnoses, decisions, or outcomes they cannot control;
those abused by authorities, and for those who abuse;
those who mistake power for gospel, and gospel for power;
those grieving losses that have no timetable for healing;
those who feel unseen, unheard, or alone.
Be near to those who come to you in the night,
like Nicodemus—
seeking truth, longing for life,
not yet knowing what comes next.
(silent prayer)
Holy God,
hear our prayer.
For Our Shared Life
We pray for this community—
for the questions we are carrying together,
for the relationships that require patience and care,
for the unfinished work you have placed in our hands.
Teach us to trust that growth is already taking place,
even when we cannot see it,
even when we cannot measure it.
Help us resist the urge to rush ahead of your Spirit.
Help us remain—
with you,
and with one another.
(silent prayer)
Holy God,
hear our prayer.
Into your care, O God,
we place all for whom we pray—
those we have named,
those we hold in silence,
and those we do not yet know how to entrust to you.
Remain with us
as you have promised,
through Jesus Christ,
who stays with us in life, in death, and in new birth.
Amen.
The Lord’s Prayer
We pray together, saying:
(The Lord’s Prayer is prayed in the words familiar to the community.)
Communion (Optional)
A Table That Unites Us in Christ
Invitation to the Table
Friends,
This table is not set for those who have everything figured out.
It is set for those who are willing to stay.
Here, Christ does not ask us for certainty,
but for openness.
Not for answers,
but for trust.
At this table, we come as we are—
carrying questions,
unfinished faith,
and lives still becoming.
Jesus welcomed Nicodemus in the night,
Abraham on the road,
and disciples who did not yet understand.
So come—
not because you are ready,
but because Christ is present.
Come, and remain.
Come, and receive.
Come, and trust that God is already at work.
This is the joyful feast of the people of God.
(Communion may be celebrated according to the practice of the community.)
Sending
Friends, as we go, listen to these good words, spoken by Jesus as recorded in John 3.
For God so loved the world that God gave the only Son, so that everyone who trusts in him may not perish but may have eternal life. Indeed, God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
Amen.
Reflections for Later
For Newcomers
If you are new here, or finding your way back after some time away,
we’re glad you were part of this moment.
You may not have understood everything that was said or done today.
That’s okay. Faith does not begin with clarity.
This service was shaped around a simple invitation:
to stay—
with questions that do not yet have answers,
with God’s presence when the path forward is still unfolding,
and with one another as we learn how to trust again.
If something unsettled you, linger with it.
If something stirred hope, carry it gently.
If you felt unsure, know that uncertainty is not a failure of faith,
but often the place where it begins.
You are welcome to return, to ask, to listen, or simply to be present again.
There is room here to grow—step by step.
Peace be with you as you go.
For Those Rooted in This Community
For those who know this community well—
who have prayed here often,
served here faithfully,
and carried its stories over time—
today’s worship invites a familiar, difficult practice:
to stay.
To stay with one another
when answers do not come quickly.
To stay with the work God has placed before us
even when the next step is not obvious.
To stay open to the Spirit
when old patterns no longer hold
and new ones are still forming.
Faithfulness is not measured only by what we build or decide,
but by how we remain present—
to God,
to one another,
and to the questions that shape us.
As you leave this place,
notice where you feel the urge to hurry,
to resolve,
or to withdraw.
Ask instead:
What would it look like to stay—just a little longer—
with trust,
with patience,
and with hope?
May the God who stays with us
go with you now,
strengthening what is already rooted
and gently opening what is still becoming.
Peace be with you.
For Churches Without a Pastor
For those living in this season without a settled pastor—you are seen.
This is a season that asks much of your community:
patience without timelines,
trust without guarantees,
and faithfulness without the comfort of familiar leadership.
Today’s worship reminds us that God’s work does not pause while we wait.
God stays—
in prayer offered by many voices,
in leadership shared and stretched,
in worship shaped by those who show up again and again,
and in mission held in grace and tenderness.
Waiting does not mean stagnation.
Uncertainty does not mean absence.
And this season is not a sign that God has forgotten you.
It may be a sign that God is calling you in new ways.
As you move forward,
notice where God is already at work among you—
deepening relationships,
revealing gifts,
teaching you how to listen, worship, and serve together.
There is no need to rush what is still forming.
Trust that the same God who called you here
will continue to guide you,
step by step.
May you leave this service strengthened for the waiting,
steadied for the work of today,
and confident that God remains with you—
even now.
Peace be with you.
Suggested Songs (Optional)
Songs may be sung, listened to, or replaced with silence, depending on the needs and gifts of the community. Participation matters more than perfection.
Glory to God (GTG, 2013)
The Presbyterian Hymnal: Hymns, Psalms, & Spiritual Songs (TPH, 1990)
O Lord, You Have Called Me (GTG 726)
Be Thou My Vision (GTG 450, TPH 281)
Spirit of the Living God (GTG 288, TPH 322)
Lord, When You Came to the Seashore (TPH 377)
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Written by Rev. Matthew J. Skolnik unless otherwise noted. All rights reserved.
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